SOME DATA AND MY MEMORIES

LOIS G. B.

4/1977

 

Richmond Virginia Goss - June 1, 1867 - Nov. 1922

 

Mary Elizabeth Crawford - Sept, 1867 - Mar. 1939 - Married Sept. 18, 1890 - I don’t know where.

 

Mabel - Oct. 1, 1892 – 1962

 

Gussie – April, 1894 lived one year, buried in Carbon Hill.  They had her moved to Amory, Miss.  Buried there in 1903.  Mama said never again would she move anymore.

 

Lois - Dec. 23, 1898 born in Carbon Hill –

 

Olive – Oct., 1900 – Mar., 1955 – Buried in Imboden. (Arkansas)

 

Papa & Mama (Richmond Virginia Goss & Mary Elizabeth Crawford), Mabel, Olive & Lois moved to Jasper, Ala. From Carbon Hill and lived there about one yr. until Papa could build us a big house in Loss Creek, Ala.  He and Grandpa Goss (James W. Goss) built the store also for the coal miners families to use.  Papa Goss (Richmond Virginia Goss) had run a coal mine in Carbon Hill.  He heard of one he could lease in Loss Creek, so he did.

 

Eunice was born Sept. 12, 1902 in Loss Creek, Ala. (About 6 mi. out of Jasper).  I remember the day she was born.  I was 4 years old and Mama (Mary Elizabeth Crawford) let me go to the “one room” school that day with Mabel.  When we came home Eunice was there.  I still remember that day as it was yesterday.  Papa (Richmond Virginia Goss) had a prosperous mine.  He let me ride on the big white mule that pulled the little coal trains out of the mine.  That turned out to be the richest coal vein of any around there anywhere.  In 1902 he sold his lease in Loss Creek to the Galloway Coal Co. in Birmingham for a fabulous price evidently, for Papa never had to work again.  All he did the rest of his life were hobbies - like bees - raising prize chickens and entering them in fairs in Ala. & Miss.  We moved to Amory, Miss. In 1903.  He bought stock in the bank there, built the big brick house.  I started to school there in 1904.  Grandpa Goss (James W. Goss) would come to visit us from Nauva, Ala. as Grandma Goss (Sara Ann Davis) died young.  Her family, she was Sara Ann Davis, were related to Pres. Jefferson Davis Family.

 

Papa Goss (Richmond Virginia Goss) Dad, James W. Goss died in Ala. born in N. Carolina died at 72 yrs.  He was mustered out of Civil War at Richmond, Va. when Papa was born and that is why he named Papa Goss Richmond Virginia!  His (James W. Goss or should this be “Her – not His”, Mary Elizabeth Crawford) mother was Minerva Jane Johnson and she was related to Pres. Andrew Johnson’s family.  She was born in Ala. but died in Wheatland, Ind.  Mama Goss (Mary Elizabeth Crawford) dad Stark Sims Crawford moved to Vincens, Ind. For a while when Mama was young.  As far as I know Papa & Mama met in Ind. But they all came back south except aunt Gusie (Spell?) McCord, mama’s sister who still lived in Wheatland, Ind.  When Grover and I took her to visit there in 1935 in our new Chevrolet, Mama had Olivia with her and we took Grover Jr.

 

Mama’s (Mary Elizabeth Crawford) dad Stark Sims Crawford 1834 – 1915 Born in N. Carolina died & buried in Gordo, Ala. along side the Carr family, Mama’s sister Mattie Crawford Carr.  Mama took all four of us girls to visit Grandpa Crawford (Stark Sims Crawford) and Aunt Mattie Carr in Gordo.  I remember it well, while we lived in Amory.  Grandpa (Stark Sims Crawford) had long white beard, a typical Southern Gentleman.

 

Mama Goss (Mary Elizabeth Crawford) was born in Holly Springs, Miss.  Papa Goss (Richmond Virginia Goss) was born in Birmingham.  I know nothing about their marriage and neither did Mabel.  We talked about it lots.  Papa and Mama always provided a good happy home for all four of us girls.  We had plenty of money it seemed.  In Amory we had two horses, a surry with the fringe on top we all rode to S. S. & church.  We had a small buggy Mama would drive around town.  We moved to Verona, Miss. In 1906 after we sold the Amory house to a man named Grady.  Verona is now taken in by Tupelo, Miss.  I have a school album that some of Mabel’s friends wrote in for me at Verona in 1908.  Mama took us four girls to Tupelo (6 mi.) to Ringland Brothers Circus in the buggy.  She had a little pistol in her purse, precaution I guess.  So when we stopped by the side of the road to go, go, in the brush she saw a snake and shot it dead.  At Verona was where we had woods in back of the house and a big drove of peacocks – just came with the house.  Papa was a restless kind always looking for something better.  He would buy a big house.  He and Mama always worked in church.  He was a Deacon and Mama into W.M.S.  They both read a lot and studied.  We always had an extra bedroom and most always had the visiting preacher.  Help was cheap then in the south so we had lots of company and lots of good food.

 

Mabel married when we lived in the Nemick house across from the Methodist Church.  She was 6 yrs. older than me.  Oscar would bring her a box of candy almost every time he came to see her.  She would have a time keeping Eunice, Olive, and me from sneaking out some of it.  Papa (Richmond Virginia Goss) soon built the house across the river.  Mabel and Oscar lived in the house on McKamey farm.  Then up the river while Martin Goss lived.  He (He who?) was born at our house and so was Wilson Goss (June 10, 1918).  Grover and I were married there Sept.28, 1916, a big wedding.  Olive and Edwin were married in Baptist Church.

 

Papa (Richmond Virginia Goss) sold the farm about 1920 and they moved to Florida, Eunice too.  He had the shoe store there, as a hobby, for he and Eunice to run.  He died of a heart attack, only 55 years old.  Mama (Mary Elizabeth Crawford) sold the store, the house they owned.  She came back to Imboden lived at Olive’s.  Eunice stayed with me until she and Carroll married.  Grover Jr. was born in Imboden Aug. 6, 1922.  Papa died that fall Nov. 1922. 

 

The depression during Hoover administration caused us to loose everything as most every one else in the United States did.  We moved to St. Louis.  We all worked.  My boys are the best.  We have 5 grandchildren and 4 great-grand children.  Grover (Bowers) Sr. died Dec. 16, 1973.  I’m 78 now.  Look back on a happy life.  I dearly love my family and all that married into it.

 

Lois G. Bowers
(12/23/1898 - ?)